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The Male Rating System
While not necessarily New Age in nature, Samantha has noticed a lot of clients asking questions about their potential beaus lately and she thought this refreshing change might be just what was needed to help our female Realm members keep things in perspective regarding their male paramours. Enjoy!-David - Believe it or not, if you go into forums on web sites that are devoted to the subject of how to pick up girls, you will find people posting messages about something that is called the mating rating system. Reading one of these forums is kind of a rude wake up call if you ever thought that men "rated" us on such qualities as humor, intelligence or charm. Instead this rating system, which in a state of constant debate seems to be based on leg length, the size of your lips, how high your cheek bones are and whether or not you have big breasts. The Male Rating system finds its origins in the movie"10" starring Dudley Moore and Bo Derek. This was a romantic comedy that was made in the seventies that featured the adventures of a neurotic alcoholic who was looking for a woman who he considered to be a perfect Ten on his personal rating scale. He finally finds her in the person of Bo Derek, who is six feet tall, has long blonde hair, full lips, icy blue eyes, legs that go on forever, a tiny waist and a very vacuous smile. My opinion is that if men are going to rate us, there is no reason why we can't develop our own system to rate men. However because men are more sex oriented and women are more relationship oriented our rating system is going to be a little more sophisticated. It also won't be as racially BIASED as the male rating system, which seems to prefer the Aryan ideal of the Nordic Queen. To find out how your male rates on our rating system answer the following questions by choosing an option below. Choose only one option. You can add up points as you go along. Be forewarned you will never find another rating system anywhere that is as honest and forthright as this one. It is based on very realistic criteria that could bring your head down out of the clouds and could really make you think twice about who it is you are going out with. What level of education has he completed? Elementary school 1 pointGrade Six 2 points Grade Nine 3 points Grade Ten 4 points Graduated High School 5 points One Year of University or College 6 points Two Years of University or College 7 points Completed College but no degree 8 points Completed College With Degree 9 points Post Graduate Degree 10 points How much money does he make a year? $ 0 to $5,000 1 point $5,000 to $15,000 2 points $ 15,000 to $25,000 3 points $25,000 to $32,000 4 points $32,000 to $36,000 5 points $36000, to $42,000 6 points$42,000 to $50,000 7 points $50,000 to $70,000 8 points $70,000 to $90.000 9 points $ Over $90,000 a year 10 points Has he had? One Heart Attack or More 1 pointFull dentures 2 pointsMore then five dental crowns 3 pointsSmoke a pack of cigarettes a day 4 pointsBack Problems 5 pointsMigraines 6 pointsAllergies 7 pointsOccasional Muscle Strains 8 pointsNo cavities 9 pointsNo Health Problems whatsoever 10 points Has he ever been diagnosed with any of the following? Schizophrenia 1 pointManic Depression 2 pointsParanoia 3 pointsPersonality Disorder 4 pointsAnger Management 5 pointsAttention Deficit Disorder 6 pointsObsessive Compulsive 7 points Depression 8 pointsAnxiety 9 pointsNo disorders 10 points In the past he has: Been jailed for a felony 1 pointCharged with drunk driving 2 pointsCharged with assault 3 pointsBeen a member of a cult 4 pointsBeen jailed for a misdemeanor 5 points A member of AA or (blank) Anon 6 pointsDeclared Bankruptcy 7 pointsAttended church once a week 8 pointsParticipated actively in a charity 9 pointsDonated more than $5000 to charity 10 points Which of the following terms or phrases is he most likely to use to describe his ex? Slut 1 pointBitch 2 pointsPathetic 3 pointsSelfish 4 pointsToo Needy or Smothering 5 pointsCodependent 6 pointsTroubled 7 pointsSad 8 pointsA tragedy 9 pointsA great person "but it didn't work out" 10 points Which of the following statements describes best how he spends the majority of his free time: Spending time with his wife or ex 1 pointDrinking with his buddies at the bar 2 pointsSleeping 3 pointsWatching sports 4 pointsHe spends his free time at work 5 pointsSpending time with his mother 6 points>Reading 7 pointsParticipating in sports 8 pointsWorking on a favorite hobby 9 pointsParticipating in community events 10 points Which of the following statements describes him the best? Only pick one: He hates his mother 1 pointHe is sullen and moody 2 pointsHe is a bit lazy 3 pointsHe is a bit of a dreamer 4 pointsHe worships women 5 pointsHe is very hard working 6 pointsHe treats his mother like a Queen 7 pointsHe loves children and animals 8 pointsHe loves to dance 9 pointsHe has a great sense of humor 10 points Which of the following actors in a movie does he remind you of the most? Al Pacino in Scarface 1 pointMatt Damon in "The Talented Mr. Ripley." 2 pointsMickey Rourke in "Nine and a Half Weeks" 3 pointsMicheal Douglas in "Fatal Attraction" 4 pointsJack Nicholson in "As Good As It Gets." 5 pointsOwen Wilson in "Zoolander" 6 pontsAdam Sandler in the "Wedding Singer" 7 pointsTom Hanks in "Castaway" 8 pointsKevin Costner in "Field of Dreams" 9 pointsWill Smith in "Independence Day" 10 points Pick the one action that he has done MOST OFTEN to you: Slapped or hurt you even accidentally 1 pointHumiliated you in public 2 pointsCalled you a name in private 3 pointsMade fun of your career 4 pointsPrevented you from going out on your own 5 pointsDisplayed jealousy over your ex 6 points Lent you money 7 pointsBought you a box of candy 8 pointsBrought you flowers 9 pointsMade a meal for you 10 points Now add up your points. You should get a double-digit figure. Move the decimal point one digit over to the right so that you have a rating out of ten. For instance if your man's rating is 79 then he is not a Perfect 10 he is a 7.9. My theory that is that if the mans rating is 6.9 or lower than the relationship is not likely to last very long. If it is 5.0 or below, you should drop him a look for your own "Perfect Ten". Samantha Steven's articles have been published in many high-standing newspapers and she has published several books. If you wish to buy Samantha's books about metaphysics click herehttp://www.insomniacpress.com/author.php?id=110You can meet Samantha Stevens at http://www.psychicrealm.com where she works as a professional psychic. You can also read more of her articles at http://www.newagenotebook.com
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