Tips for Stress free life  >  Expert Zone   > Alternative Health

       Alternative Health Tips by experts


Alternative Health Practitioner, How to Pick the Perfect Help for You


Therapists, physicians, acupuncturists, massage therapists, body workers and energy workers need to be interviewed and checked out just like your roofer!

I don't know about you but finding a good roofer is might-near-impossible.

Psychological outcome research has shown that half of the therapists make us better and the other half makes us worse.

This means we need to choose wisely. You do not need to continue to pay someone if you are not making dynamic progress toward your goals. If the roofer does not fix your roof you do not continue to pay him money.

The outcome psychological research shows that the technique does not matter, the therapist is the important factor. If he or she is open, loving, caring then he or she can help you feel better. If they are uptight and nervous, they will make you uptight and nervous. I would think that this applies to all holistic practitioners and not just psychologists.

As sensitive people we definitely need to feel safe and secure with any person we are working with. We have a responsibility and right to check therapists, physicians, massage therapists, acupuncturists, body workers and energy workers out very carefully before we put ourselves in their office.

It is our responsibility as clients and consumers to pick and choose based on our own needs and desires.

Even if you get a good recommendation about a person, check them out by calling them up and interviewing them.

Your checklist:1-What does his or her voice sound like? It is inviting, warm, loving?
2-How accepting are they toward you? Are they open or judgmental?
3-Do they relate equally to you? If not, keep checking around until you find someone that respects you and acknowledges your strengths.
4-How do you feel after talking with them on the phone? Do you feel comfortable? Do you feel hopeful? Did they rush you? If so, then they are anxious, forget them.

If they pass the phone test. Then set up an appointment and continue to check for the above things in person. If they pass the first psychology session test then it is up to you to be open and trust them enough to let them help you.

Therapists and practitioners are not perfect, they make mistakes, just like everyone else. The best ones don't pretend to be perfect, they know they are human.

What you want to look for during your sessions:

1- How present are they? Do they really listen to you and receive you?
2-How relaxed are they are in their body? Are they breathing?
3-How secure do they seem to be when you get scared, frightened or anxious? If you scare them, they cannot help you.
4-Do they had the information and knowledge to help you calm down your nervous system?
5- Do they know what they are doing?
6-Do you usually feel better and more hopeful after each session?
7-Do they let you express your deepest desires and fears without questioning you?

Remember, it is up to you, the client, to pick and choose someone who is capable and loving.

When you decide that someone is not good for you, you can leave at any time for any reason. Do not feel guilty and take care of the therapist. You are paying them for a service and they need to deliver.

For more about how to live a guilt free life listen to the audio tapes series, A Natural Process for Opening the Heart, over and over again. Dr. Jeanette explains the difference in energy between real feelings and mental judgments that cause you to feel bad and guilty.

Remember you do not owe your physician or therapist anything. They need to help you grow and become healthy or you need to find someone who can.

If you really want to change and grow, pick a therapist who will teach you how to let go of judgmental energy so that you can grow up and achieve self esteem.

For more information about the Center for the New Psychology, which offers a full bodied, emotional, holistic health, mental health with energy healing, spiritual healing, visit www.drjeanette.com/newpsychology.html

Copyrighted, March, 2005. Doris Jeanette, drjeanette@drjeanette.com

Doris Jeanette, Psy. D, licensed psychologist, author of A Natural Process for Opening the Heart, which teaches you, step by step how to replace judgmental energy with self accepting energy, available at http://www.drjeanette.com/tapes.html. As Director of the Center for the New Psychology, a holistic, mental health psychologist for thirty years she has helped thousands feel better and find their self esteem. She is also a "Sex & Love" Columnist & Health Columnist. Call her at 215.732.6197.


MORE RESOURCES:

See the complete list of Articles on Alternative Health here

Have a look at Best Selling Books on Alternative Health

 

Google

See also : Other articles on

Depression, Grief Loss, Happiness, Humor, Inspirational, Motivation,
Positive Attitude
, Meditation, Spirituality Goal Setting, Wealth Building, Ethics, Stress Management
Yoga, Alternative Health, Build Muscle, Exercise,   Aerobics Cardio, Fitness Equipment Pregnancy  Dating, Elder Care, RelationshipAcneBeauty, Hair Loss
Cooking Tips, Recipes,Top Tips for everything Crafts Hobbies, Creativity, Fishing Photography, Pets,

Latest info on : Alternative Health


VBAC Can Be A Safe Alternative to Repeat C-Section
eMaxHealth
Although the panel agrees on more research, in general, VBAC is a safe alternative for women who have had one prior c-section performed through a transverse ...

and more »


Chris Dardaman Joins Emory Center for Alternative Investments Network
Gwinnett Gazette
Chris Dardaman, CEO of Brightworth, has joined The Emory Center for Alternative Investments Network at Emory University's Goizueta Business School. ...

and more »


CBS News

Coffee Party USA Seeks Alternative to Tea Parties
Uprising
A new and growing movement around the US called the Coffee Party USA, found it's start on Facebook and is now spreading to dozens of cities nationwide. ...
Coffee Party offers teabag alternativeabc11.com
Is the "Coffee Party" the Next Big Thing?CBS News
Tea Party Alternative Will Have Coming Out SaturdayLA Weekly (blog)

all 39 news articles »


Reportlinker Adds Alternative Energy Annual Deals Analysis 2010
MarketWatch (press release)
"Alternative Energy Annual Deals Analysis 2010" report is an essential source of data and trend analysis on the mergers and acquisitions and financings in ...
Increased Deal Activity In The Alternative Energy Market In 2009, Driven By ...Market Research Agency

all 9 news articles »


Washington Post (blog)

Colorado State University Students Prepare for Spring Break, Alternative Style
Colorado State University News (press release)
“I participate in Alternative Breaks because I love to volunteer. I think that it is really important to go out and engage in the community,” said Tisa ...
Alternative Spring Break: College Students Spend Week Off VolunteeringHuffington Post (blog)
Students Participate In Alternative Spring BreakMyWabashValley
Take advantage of spring breakN.C. State University Technician Online
Illinois Wesleyan University -Anchor -Daily Eastern News
all 74 news articles »


Alcatel-Lucent's alternative energy program named a finalist in European ...
WebWire (press release)
Alcatel-Lucent submitted its “Alternative Energy Program for Global Green Telecommunications” in the “Market Transformation-Voluntary Commitments” category ...

and more »


Alternative schools merger discussion
WXVT
(AP) - The Poplarville School Board has approved the opening of discussions with Pearl River County about merging the districts' alternative schools. ...

and more »


HeatingOil.com (blog)

Steffy: In energy, let's not deny what we agree on
Houston Chronicle
Washington policymakers are too focused on promoting alternative fuels at the expense of conventional ones, especially natural gas. “Let natural gas compete ...
At CERAWeek Conference, Oil and Gas Are the FutureHeatingOil.com (blog)

all 15 news articles »


Arkansas congressman offers alternative measure
CNBC
Marion Berry, D-Ark., said Thursday he was offering his measure as an alternative to the bill being promoted in Congress by President Barack Obama, ...
US Rep. Marion Berry Offers Alternative Health Care BillArkansasSports360.com

all 10 news articles »


Kansas.com

One step closer: Amtrak study released
Emporia Gazette
Startup costs, along with four alternative routes and ridership estimates, were released in the feasibility study funded by KDOT and conducted by Amtrak, ...
Train costs revealedTopeka Capital Journal

all 146 news articles »

Google News

Why not be an expert yourself  ?

 If you can write on any of the above topic, you are welcome to submit your
 articles in our database :

 Submit your article here   Our Article Area

You are here Home > Tips for Stress free Life > Expert Zone > Alternative Health


| Alternative Health Home | All articles on Alternative Health- complete list 

Main Home  | Meditation Corner

                |Health Tips  | Workplace Tips  | Soul Tips  |Expert zone |

Recommend us  |

 Books, DVDs and accessories on meditation & yoga  |

[About us] [Contact] [Privacy Policy]

Copyright 2006, Meditation is Easy.com, All rights reserved