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How to Meditate : Do's and don'ts in Meditation

After knowing what is meditation and its benefits, the next question is how to meditate. 

There in only one basic rule for meditating :- 

"Just do anything which  reveals  your real identity (self) to you and you will be in meditation"  

And when I say 'anything',  I mean it.
 

Just about anything that makes you aware of your true identify (that of your self ) is a meditation technique.

 And there are no hard and fast rules of  what can be termed as meditation techniques and what can not.   

 meditation can be as easy as follows: 


Sit quietly in a comfortable place (in any comfortable position you want). Now speak (or say  quietly ) in your mind:

"
Dear God, you are everywhere because you are the sum total of this whole consciousness pervading in the universe. So whatever has happened, whatever is happening and whatever will happen, everything is in accordance with your supreme wish. There is nothing in the past, present or in future that can happen without your consent because everything that happens at any point of time is just  the play of  supreme consciousness which is you. So I bow to you. I seek refuge in you. I accept everything that you desire for me be it good or bad."

Now after saying this just sit silently and surrender yourself to this existence. Let everything happens on its own. If thoughts come let them come, if tears come let them flow, if laughing comes let it come. Don't interfere in whatever is happening. Suddenly you will realize that there is someone in you who is beyond thoughts, emotions, feelings, pain, ecstasy, joy and sorrow. Someone who is watching everything that is going on. This knower is self. 

Congratulation, you have meditated successfully. 


Yes ! meditation can be as easy as above. 

Always remember that all meditation techniques are nothing but the methods through which our true self is revealed to us. 

The technique explained  above, though  very easy and powerful,   will not work for everyone. Not everybody is prepared to enter into meditation so easily. Thankfully, we are fortunate to have with us the well laid down spiritual path of many traditions. There have been many meditation techniques developed and perfected over centuries by countless seekers. There are techniques for just about every type of individuals. With the help of those techniques we can easily meditate. 

In the Meditation techniques I have attempted to explain many of such easy and powerful techniques. 

But before we start meditation.....

 

....... Here are some do's and don'ts in meditation

(1) Meditate regularly : For deriving some real benefits from meditation, you should meditate regularly. Make  a routine for meditation and stick to it. Someone has said," Finding time for something valuable is not that difficult. It only require a reshuffle of our priorities" 

In the list of your priorities can there be a place for this life changing journey of meditation? 

If yes, you can find time for meditation. 

If not, then make a place for meditation in your priorities list. 

(2) Meditate on the same place and same time everyday: Though it is not always easy to do this, yet you should try to meditate on the same place everyday. Now this place may be a separate room, or the same chair ,same car, same bus or the same train. When we meditate on the same place everyday, that place get filled with positive vibrations. These positive vibrations helps us in entering into meditative state quickly. The same hold true for timing. Try to meditate at the same time everyday. Now this time may be during your morning workout, or at your breakfast, lunch, evening tea or dinner. Or it may be the time you spent during traffic jams, during waiting for someone in the market or during your prayer session or while performing any particular activity. The key is to meditate at the same time everyday. 

(3) For all extremely busy people:  

  Adopt the following three yogic aids of meditation -

  (a) Deep breathing:  

     Make a habit of deep breathing. This will keep you  energetic  the whole day. 

     Do you know this fact ? 

 

To function properly, our brain needs three times more oxygen than the rest of our organs; and unless this is provided it will try to appropriate its supply by drawing on the over-all allotment !

That's why most of us, the city dwellers involved in sedentary occupations, always remains in a state of exhaustion, tend to become dilapidated and have greater susceptibility to germ and infections than persons who lead active outdoor lives. Sedentary individuals are permanently oxygen-starved. Adopt a habit of deep breathing and you will never be oxygen starved.   

(b) Deep relaxation:  

Learn deep relaxation- the great art of yoga which will provide the ability of hibernating any time anywhere and restore your energy instantly.


(c) Deep Contraction:  

Do some physical exercise daily. The best thing is to learn some yogic contraction exercises. A regular practice of yoga will make your body flexible, fit and agile. Remember that a healthy mind reside in a healthy body and a healthy mind in a health body is the ideal condition for spiritual development


(4) Have patience : Meditation acts as a cleansing process. It will take its own time to produce its effect on you. Be patient and don't meditate with an aim of getting a time-bound benefit. Meditate without expecting anything. Soon you will find that the  joy that comes through meditation is enough. 

(5) Always remember this fact : In whichever meditation technique you are, you aim should be to identify the witness within you, which is the real aim of meditation. In fact all meditation techniques helps you to identify that witness within you.  This is the real key factor of all meditation techniques. No matter what you do, where you do it or  how you do it,   there is always someone  in you who  watches the doer as well as the deed. You can experience this in many ways. While watching a movie try to see if it is only you who is watching the movie or is there someone in you who is watching that you are watching the movie. ( I have already explained this in What is meditation )To know that knower is the real meditation. That knower, that particular watcher - the witness is your true self. This self is your eternal essence. If there is any part of you which was present before your birth and which will be there after your death, it is this self - your true identity. Always meditate with an aim to know this self. 

Now keeping the above do's don't in mind let's enter into the world of meditation techniques. Click Meditation techniques.


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